Want a life with less problems?

If you seem to have a life full of problems and everything seems to be against you right now then I have some great news for you. "Its never gonna change!"

Pardon? Yep, you will always have a life filled with problems. You will NEVER get rid of them all.Thats right. The only people I know who have a life without any problems reside in the graveyard. I`ve tried to sort most of my challenges. However I have always been blessed with new exciting and challenges.  Well how is this great news I hear you ask? Because its natures way of telling you you`re still alive and that you have more personal growth to go through. You see, what I`m trying to say is this, it doesnt matter if you become the most successful guy in America, Europe or the world, you will still have a life filled with problems or challenges. In fact the more money you earn the more problems you will have because the more opportunites you have , the more challenges that come along with it. You see challenges and opportunity are the same thing. I will also tell you that if you suddenly earnt less money than you do right now then you will probably have even more problems than you have right now! So you need to be greatful at this point my friends. You probably have the least amount of problems you will ever have!!

What I`m trying to say is this. I`ts not the size of your problems or the amount of problems that count. I`ts the size of you in relation to the problems. Im sure if I gave  your problem to Henry Ford, Robert Redford or Richard Branson, no matter what the problem is, he would react in a totally positive, solution orientated way. Are you are the type of person who thinks like that? Its because they have grown inside and in attitude.  Being late to a party probably isnt a huge issue either. Some people I know fall out with their spouse over this. Argue and take it out on whoever is nearest. Swear and throw things! I know, I`ve been there!

What im saying is  you will never have less problems. What you need to do is grow and become bigger than all your problems!! You see, problems only become large when they are bigger than you. Develop yourself to a point when you are so large in positive assertiveness, confidence, belief and faith that you can accomplish anything , life will no longer seem to hold as many problems. You will still have them but you will solve them and walk past them as tho you were watering your plants in the garden.

Have a great year and please, Continue to grow!!

Robert Snow